Projecting, Responsibility, and Taking Back Your Power


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Let's talk about projections- we've all experienced them in some form and it ain't pretty! 

On this episode of the Galactic Goddess Podcast Radhaa and I breakdown the meaning of projections and why people do it, how to deal with unconscious projections and owning what’s yours, being responsible for your energy and taking back your power, unconscious relationship dynamics and the importance of shadow work, and dealing with unconscious behavior and trolls on social media #shadethrowers and in the spiritual community. We also give you tips on how to work through difficult relationship dynamics with ourselves and others in order to co-create our reality and embody the shift we've all been working towards. 


April 2018 Energy Update: Welcoming The Higher Realms

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April is all about welcome the higher realms. We are all feeling the new energy on this planet that is bringing the light of the higher realms into the core of Gaia to support her and us in our ascension to the 5th Dimension. However, we are all feeling this energy in different ways. For some of us it feels destructive- it feels like death and it is bringing about mourning and loss. For others, it feels like ecstasy, it feels like heaven is finally here. Even if we feel the same (no difference), we’re still feeling something because our internal light is integrating and adjusting from the cellular level up, which means we’re feeling this in the astral at dream time, or just subconsciously. The point is that it’s ALL valid. Every single thing you are feeling right now is valid, special, and here to support you in the next phase of your journey. We have all been given building blocks by the higher realms and we all have different shapes, but we’re all building towards the same goal: unity consciousness, oneness, and unconditional love.

In order to integrate what’s already here, we have to use the energy from the higher realms to go deep into healing our emotional bodies. It’s time to collect all of our aspects. So if you’re feeling grief, feel it deeply and let it destroy you. If you’re feeling bliss, feel it deeply and let it overtake you. The point is to come back to yourself. Put all the pieces together by acknowledging you still have pieces that need your full love and attention. Don’t get discouraged if you’re going through a difficult time. Don’t compare yourself to others who look like they have it all together. All of us on this planet are a tight knit orchestra. We’re creating the greatest symphony of our lifetime and the way to do it is to play your part to the best of your ability. Whatever you’ve been given has been assigned to you by Higher Self to bring you into your full glory, so trust your life exactly where you are in this moment. Whatever you’re going through is exactly what you need and exactly what you will overcome.

Every day that you commit to validating yourself and your experience, to loving yourself and digging deep to show your heart the most compassion you’ve ever had within you will bring you closer to everything you’ve been working for- your inevitable mastery. So welcome these energies! Announce out loud:

“I WELCOME THE LIGHT OF THE HIGHER REALMS INTO MY BODY FOR THE HEALING AND INTEGRATION OF ALL BEINGS. MAY EACH CELL RECEIVE THE LIGHT OF SOURCE, CLEAR ANY DISTORTIONS IN MY BODY, AND INTEGRATE THE LIGHT SO I MAY RISE AND STEP INTO MY LIFE WITH COMPLETE LOVE, TRUST, AND OPTIMAL HEALTH. THAT I AM NOW AND SO IT IS. AND SO I AM FREE.”

Finally, declare out loud: “I LOVE MYSELF EXACTLY AS I AM IN THIS ETERNAL NOW MOMENT.” Work with this mantra everyday all throughout this month and watch how quickly things will change. You are the key to ascension. You have always been. You brought it to Earth and now it’s time to fully plug in and enjoy the light show. 

January 2018 Energy Update: Renewed Will

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January is the month of renewed will. Imagine yourself stepping out from behind a gold, shimmering curtain and into your life for the very first time. Imagine finally arriving into your Body-Earth vessel and see the infinite universe, the infinite possibilities, and the infinite time that you have to make your dreams come true. Take every breath with gratitude and take everyday as your first day on Earth. Use this excitement, adventure, energy, and will. Channel it into everything and anything you do, from taking a sip of water and being in awe of its taste and texture, to starting a new project or taking care of yourself. Bring your sense of AWE into every aspect of your life. See yourself as the walking miracle that you are. See yourself as pure magic. See the wonder in being YOU. This perspective will allow you to carry this new found sense of will and excitement throughout the year. Perspective is everything and you get to decide how you want to experience your life from this moment on. 

Energy Update: Your Heart's Role in Ascension

A year to this date I did an Energy Update about the heart and how it relates to Ascension. Now we are understanding its exact role much deeper and have a clear idea of what light workers need to do for embodiment and to shift the collective into the highest possible timeline.

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1. Trust

Trust your abilities. Trust your visualization. Energy work is focused intention, breath, and visualization. Now more than ever, trust what you’re seeing in order to see more and trust what you’re feeling in order to guide you to what you need to personally address within yourself.

2. Working From The Heart Space

Now that you trust yourself, work from your heart space. Drop into your heart by setting the intention and then visualizing it. Now breathe into it and expand your heart space. From here, visualize and fill yourself with unconditional love, peace, joy, harmony, and a planetary shift into the highest timeline for all of humanity. Really get in touch with oneness and shifting the ENTIRE planet. This cannot be done if you’re carrying bitterness, judgment, resentment, and jealousy in your heart space- it has to come from compassion for all beings. Everyone gets to shift. Even if you feel that not everyone deserves to because they didn’t do the work, that’s something you need to feel and work through before you take on this type of anchoring. If you still have judgments to work out, honor them and work them out. You’ll find that compassion coupled with a peaceful, smooth global shift will easily override resistance to this work. And if you have resistance, that’s okay too.

It is imperative that you clear and open your own heart before taking on anything else. How do you open your own heart? By feeling and unconditionally loving every single emotion that comes up for you. By fully embracing yourself and knowing that you are worthy of the role you were born to play. When you open your own heart, you’re opening the hearts of all and therefore doing this same light work in a different way.

So remember, drop into your heart space and visualize peace for all beings, unconditional love for all beings, and ascension for all beings. With deep visualization and an open heart, we are creating the heaven on Earth we’ve been talking about years. Now is the time to contribute, and the more of us who do it, the quicker the planet will respond. We are the key to acceleration and determining whether we want a smooth transition or a catastrophic one. It is up to us. We are the heroes we’ve been waiting for. We are the creators of our own timelines.

Thank you. I love you.

Inner Child Work: The Missing Puzzle Piece in Spiritual Evolution

Deep inside our souls, our inner child awaits. She (or he) is waiting to be acknowledged, remembered, and loved. No matter what stage of life you are currently in, the inner child within is asking to join you on your journey to provide support, guidance, and healing.

The inner child is easy to forget and neglect just as easily as our own needs were forgotten and neglected as children. Even those who experienced “stable or normal” family lives have stored trauma that inner child work can uncover and heal. Based on my work as a Quantum Sphere Healer, I can say that clients who’ve had relatively happy childhoods need this work just as much as those who’ve had tumultuous upbringings because going within to heal unmet needs and blocked trauma from childhood is not common knowledge.

The inner child resides in our subconscious and has recorded all of the traumas that are buried deep inside us, hidden and forgotten by time. Through the survival mechanism of suppression, parts of us go unconscious in order for the individual to continue to function.

The process to becoming whole again is done through our inner child. This is the aspect of us that wants to be seen, heard and ultimately, integrated. Our inner child is trying to get our attention so that we can learn how to meet our own needs and love ourselves, instead of assigning those roles to people, places, and things. 

Inner child work is often the missing puzzle piece in our spiritual evolution. We can learn all the ancient knowledge in existence but healing the grief and loneliness of the inner child is the key to unconditional love and transcendence. Our inner child wants peace and resolution, and the way to get it is by fully embracing her.

It can be difficult to feel complete on this journey, but when you meet your inner child, you will start feeling the safety and security inside yourself that comes with healing this crucial shadow aspect. When you send love to your inner child, you are telling her that she is safe to exist and thrive. You are giving her the home she’s always wanted and inviting her to share her talents, imagination and guidance with you. 

Our inner child rejoices when we follow our greatest enthusiasm and embrace our gifts. If you feel a lot of resistance on your path and find yourself unhappy with your life and journey, it may be time to visit your inner child and ask her what you can do to make her, and ultimately you, happy.

How do you know when its time to do inner child work? It often comes as a surprise to people that they need this work because it can sound abstract or even too simple to be the answer to your problems, but the feeling you get when you make the initial connection is an intense maternal love for yourself. It encompasses compassion, understanding, empathy, and joy. It is like an ancient recognition of your soul and your innocence.

The first sign that its time to do this work is if you are unhappy with your career and life choices. The inner child is disappointed when it feels that you have gone against your will and your own truth, or when you have abandoned your joy and enthusiasm for something you feel obligated or pressured into.

Not having a creative outlet also creates tension between you and your inner child. The inner child is an artist who wants to create and express herself. She sees beauty and curiosity in the world around her and she lets her imagination dictate her dreams and inspirations. We often lose this ability once we are indoctrinated in our school, family, and religious communities. And when we are adults we only realize the gold in these qualities when we’ve exhausted ourselves in dead-end jobs and societal pressures. Once you establish a relationship with your inner child, you can ask her for specific guidance and career advice. You will become inspired by your inner child in the most unexpected ways such as taking on new hobbies and artistic outlets, taking a class and getting a certification, or even taking a vacation and journaling.

Another sign is feeling like you are invisible. I’ve noticed that my clients who are unhappy with their family lives feel this the most. Clients who grew up in big families where there needs were overlooked due to a lack of attention and resources have an immense need to be seen and heard. Feeling unnoticed by parents and siblings manifests into adulthood by feeling unnoticed in your career, social life, and romantic life. If you feel like your voice is always drowned out by another person’s needs or overpowering energy, you can resolve and meet these needs by giving your inner child the love, attention, and voice that she never received. This requires you to speak to your self as you would speak to a sweet, innocent child whose trust you seek to gain. In a soft, gentle voice, speak to the inner child inside of you. Say hello, tell her you’re here for her and you will never leave her. Let her speak and listen to her. Most importantly, say, “I love you.”

We don’t have to be embarrassed that we’re starved for attention. The truth is that we’re starved for our own attention. In every single healing session I’ve performed, the first thing the inner child wants is our recognition. When we are anxious we are feeling our inner child’s stress and anxiety over our lack of self-recognition. We don’t need others to see us and validate us to prove that we are alive. We need to look at ourselves and meet ourselves with the loving gaze and recognition we craved as children.

If you are quick to anger, this is an important sign that your inner child is unhappy and is trying to get your attention. When the inner child is fearful, is in pain, is lonely, or fully succumbs to our neglect, it can act out in order to tell us that we need to change. When we try to express our rage in childhood we’re often punished and silenced. All of our pain is stored until we can’t take it anymore and we unleash at the slightest trigger. This is when you need to meet with your inner child and ask her, “Why are you hurting?” “What can I do for you?” When you get your answer, the first thing you should do is comfort your inner child and send her unconditional love. There is no room for judgment in this work. You are allowed to look at all of your shame, embarrassment, and pain and honor all of it. The next step is loving yourself for feeling all of those things. This is what we rarely received as children, as this is all we wanted, to know that we are seen and loved no matter what emotions come forward.  

In my healing practice, I’ve noticed that physical issues and energy blockages within the womb, pelvic area, throat, and jaw are important indicators of inner child work. The client’s inner child literally appears in the throat and root area of the client’s energy body and is usually shouting, “Look at me! See me! I’m over here! Help me!” I’ve seen the inner child hidden behind a boulder in someone’s throat, or literally covered in layers of dirt buried from complete sight until I unearth it during the healing session. I’ve seen it in cages, drowning in water, and under rocks. Once revealed, the inner child is gasping for breath and then it tells me what it wants from the client. I then relay the information to the client along with an inner child meditation that guides the client in journeying and meeting their inner child. I've noticed that as soon as I tell the client their inner child appeared to me, their entire energy field lights up, as if they knew all along that it was time to meet and heal.

The inner child usually appears near or within the root chakra, indicating issues with safety and security. Our most basic needs are often overlooked in childhood and the resulting trauma is stored in this energy center. Clients who've experienced sexual abuse are most likely to have their inner child trauma blocking their root chakra. The child appears asking to be nurtured and reassured that they are safe in the body and safe to be seen.

When the inner child appears in the throat I know that it wants to express itself. It wants to be seen and heard and wants to be creative. Clients who don't feel comfortable in their bodies and safe to be who they are usually have an active inner child appear in the throat asking them to look at their lives and claim their power. They're asking for their throat chakra to be activated through self-expression and through setting boundaries with other people. If you feel yourself in a power struggle, your inner child can help you pinpoint what you need and the best way to express those needs.

When I connect my client’s with their inner child, I teach them how to meet them through a simple meditation. If this is your first time meeting your inner child, all you have to do is set the intention to meet with her. Sit comfortably in your space, close your eyes and take a few deep breaths while setting the intention to meet with her. In your mind’s eye imagine her sitting in a room waiting for you or sitting in your favorite place to visit as a child. You can even meet her at the point of a traumatic childhood event and start there. Enter the room and embrace her. Trust what you are seeing and feeling. Say hello and send her love. You can ask her what she needs and how you can provide for her. Be a parent to this child. Give her a hug and feel her heart beat. Play games, talk about the things you like to do, tell her stories. The more imaginative and interactive you get the more you will feel her connection. Make a list of all the things she would like to do together and then actually go out and do those things. For example, if she wants to color, buy a pack of crayons and a coloring book and take the time to color. Treat yourself to ice cream and something you loved as a child. Get into that joyful, innocent space that inspired you as a child and allowed you to dream.

Note that this meditation exercise is not the only method of connecting with your inner child. You have a direct line to her every time you listen to your intuition and make a decision that comes from you. You connect with her every time you look in the mirror and meet yourself with a smile. You speak directly to her heart with every “I love you” you send to yourself. I like to bring my inner child with me whenever I give a talk or host a workshop. I have her sit beside me and include her in all the special moments in my life. This grounds me and inspires me to speak my truth, make her proud, and even impress her. Before I started this work my inner child lived hidden beneath layers in my throat. Now she lives in my heart and speaks through my voice.

The goal of this work is to integrate your inner child so she is no longer a separate aspect of yourself. Instead, she becomes your inner voice, ready to guide you and love you through every stage of your sacred journey.

Inner child work is continuous. You can measure the relationship with your inner child by the depth of eye contact you give yourself and how open you are to listen to all emotions. You will find that it becomes second nature by how well you treat yourself and how loving and open you become with yourself. The reward of this work is finally living in alignment with your personal truth and walking your path in wholeness with complete trust and unconditional love for yourself.

Energy Update: The Elevator

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Heart- Are you living from your heart? Do your actions align with how you feel? Do your acquaintances align with your spiritual path? Are they helping you grow or telling you to stop until they catch up?

Do you feel free to fully express yourself? These are the questions you need to meditate on as you unlock your heart energy and light the flame within. The answers you get might bring you to an uncomfortable level of awareness- work through this by loving yourself unconditionally and allowing yourself to question your current path and the things you’re attached to. Do you know what your attachments are and do you refuse to let go? Meet them, look them down and acknowledge them. Bringing consciousness to them will allow them to unravel and detach from your energy field.

The elevator in this dimension is going to the next floor- who gets off the elevator? That is for you to decide. When you know what floor you are going to, you get off by yourself no matter what floor everyone else is stopping at. Be comfortable with getting off on your own floor, letting the doors close behind you and moving forward. In our oneness we are all on solo missions until we merge. Honor where your mission takes you and where it stops, changes, or elevates.

What if the collective is in the elevator? Some people in the elevator are in fear due to external events and aren’t ready to go to the roof of the building. Maybe they have some “stuff” they forgot on the ground floor. The elevator has to go as high as the highest number selected before it drops down again. Get off on the highest floor you selected at the time, and let it drop back down for those who want to go back down. And when it comes back up, you get on and continue. You are free to ascend. This is your soul’s journey. It already knows where it is going. It has done this before. Now you are witnessing its ascension- that is why you can trust this journey- you already mapped it out. Are you ready to go to the next floor? Yes, get in the elevator- watch the buttons light up. We’ll all meet at the top when we get there. All that matters is that you get in the elevator. 

October Energy Forecast: Ascension, The Heart, and Surrender

Love your heart, be true to yourself, feel your emotions, and surrender to the light.

The Shift via the Heart

The great energetic shift of our time is happening and we are ready to welcome these energies by being the best version of ourselves. We recently passed through a huge ascension threshold during the last week of September, and these energies will continue to arrive and support us in the ascension process.

The old matrix paradigm is crumbling and we are welcoming the New Earth paradigm. We’re not controlling the shift, or making it happen, our job is to receive it by healing and clearing our bodies. Our job is to fill our bodies with unconditional love in order to be a match to heart-centered consciousness, which is the new reality we are entering. This is the time to open your heart, forgive, pull away from low frequency people and places, integrate the ego, and radiate from your heart.

Those closed off to these new supportive energies will suffer at first because they will have to have to be broken open in order to fully open their hearts and receive this new paradigm that is so unfamiliar to them. They will need to awaken and quickly adjust to these new energies and begin to process their new emotions and reality quickly. They will need to learn how to unconditionally love themselves through this process. This is because the shift is happening through the heart- it is the portal to ascension.

Those of us who’ve already opened our hearts and live in the vibration of love are ready to thrive, rise up, claim our gifts and energy upgrades, and be who we really are, which is loving, crystalline light beings. We are lit up souls disguised as humans. We don’t have to do things the hard way and get broken open to see this- we already have in this lifetime, all past incarnations have led up to anchoring this timeline- this is the gift of awakening. Now we are clearing the path for the collective by surrendering to love and thriving. Love is the way, it’s always been, but now is the time to truly trust this.

The way to ascension is through the heart. The heart is the bridge from the higher chakras to the lower chakras- it is the bridge to everything. The heart is the generator of all; everything comes from the heart. What does the human heart do in the human body? It pumps life into everything, it is the core. From esoteric terminology it is the symbol of love. So love is the generator of all and the heart is the portal. The heart is how you access infinity. When you hear the phrase “a return to love,” it is referring to a return to the heart. We’ve tried going through our heads, thoughts, logic, and the third eye. We’ve looked outward and inward, but never solely through the heart. Simply put, the heart is love. The heart is true protection and everything else is mental tricks. Don’t get distracted or caught up in anything that isn’t LOVE. Everything that isn’t love is breaking away from us, so let it fall.

Self-Love

Be the example of love. Being present with yourself and loving yourself is the example you are setting for the collective. When you love yourself, you activate your heart and the hearts of everyone around you. Take a deep breath, look in the mirror, and say “I love you” to yourself. Every single “I love you” you send to yourself activates you. You don’t have to look to an external source of activation. Remember, the way is through your heart.

Right now we can wrap up lessons that are on repeat by surrendering to the force of love. If something negative happens to you, love yourself even more. If you feel fear, shame, regret, or anger- love yourself more.

Go inside and meditate on self-love. Show your heart how grateful you are for it. Everyday put your hand on your heart and say “I love you heart.” We are alchemists, and we are transmuting every emotion within us by using the force of love- this is the gold that we create in ourselves.

Feed yourself with only love. Do this emotionally with positive thoughts and affirmations, and saying I love you to yourself. Do this physically with your food choices, exercise, and spending time in nature. Choose your words wisely, even our words carry their own powerful vibrations. Choose high vibration words via your own self-talk and mantras. Avoid low-vibration places like bars. This is being true to yourself by only doing things you resonate with, rather than betraying your comfort and intuition. Ask your Higher Self for guidance with this. Tune in and see what feels good and true to yourself.  

Eliminate any form of toxicity in your life. This can mean many different things to each of us, but includes people, places, and things.

Step away from the illusion of conflict- on the news via the mainstream media (fear programming, separation, terrorism, race wars), and in friendships, relationships, and all social interactions. Communicate your needs clearly with people in order to avoid conflict or even the perception of conflict.

Feeling Our Emotions

We have to be present in order to feel the shift. Being present with the emotional body is how you will receive the energy upgrades you need and desire. It’s how you match yourself to your ascension timeline because you will know what parts of you need love, healing, and integration. I’m talking about discomfort. Allow it and feel it deeply. In order to transmute and integrate your emotions, you have to feel them first. You have to let it burn. When something comes up, you cannot numb it. The denial, no matter how deeply buried, will resurrect itself as a shadow aspect. You have to pay attention and show all of your parts love. Bring them up to the surface to be healed and transformed.

Pay attention to escapism and what you do to escape feeling your emotions. Drugs, alcohol, and constantly being in an altered state and confusing that with awareness and spirituality is not the way to go. Even rushing around and doing a bunch of things is a way to avoid being present with your emotions. Loving what arises within you and not judging an emotion as negative is how you stay present while working through and healing emotional issues.

It doesn’t feel good. Its not supposed to. So, put your hand on your heart and love the one who is angry, love the one who doesn’t want to feel, and love the one who wants to be numb. Negative emotions cannot survive in the vibration of love. This is what it means to unconditionally love your self.

Being present with what you are feeling at this exact moment is your portal home. What you are feeling, is what is asking to be healed. When you pay attention to your feelings, you bring consciousness to them and begin the integration process. Integrating is not judging and sending these emotions away, rather, it’s saying I see you, I love you, and I welcome you home to be part of my soul.

Surrender

So much peace is ready to be accessed if you just stop, tune in, and surrender.

Right now, surrender is the fastest way to inner peace. And trust is at the core of surrender. Trust that your Higher Self has brought you exactly where you need to be and is allowing you to feel the emotions you need to feel for your highest and quickest way to enlightenment. Everyday we are being shown a playing card, how are you going to react to it? We are moving through lessons faster and faster and surrendering is the fastest way to evolution. We’ve done the work, now we need to slow down and integrate it.

Surrender to the big picture of your life. Start to see the bigger plan of your life unfold from a place of non-attachment and welcome it. Allow the universe to fill in all the details. Worry is the first way we become ungrounded. Stop worrying about what’s going to happen next in your life or on this planet. We have to show the universe we trust it and we’re ready for what’s next, even if we don’t know what that is.

We’re guided in every way and the universe is taking care of all the rest. The only thing you have to do is love yourself harder and more sincere than ever before.

Do your part by anchoring blessings. Send out blessings wherever you go. The vibrations of our words are now being heard louder than ever before, so bless everyone and everything around you.

Start by reciting the following blessing out loud:

BLESSINGS

MAY ALL BEINGS BE BLESSED

MAY ALL BEINGS BE HEALED

MAY ALL BEINGS BE FREE

MAY ALL BEINGS BE REDEEMED

MAY ALL BEINGS UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE THEMSELVES

MAY ALL BEINGS CHOOSE LOVE

I CHOOSE LOVE. THAT I AM NOW. AND SO IT IS.

Energy Update: September 2016 Accelerated Timeline

This is an energy update I channeled from my Higher Self to prepare us for the timeline shift in September, help us align with the highest, accelerated timeline, and guide us in navigating the new energies coming in. I was called to deliver these exact words and make sure the message is received. 

With an open heart and declaration of love, you are ready to align with the accelerated timeline. Remember that joy, happiness, and excitement are not just words, but living vibrations that we are now ready to completely feel and vibrationally align with at this time. Everything that isn't love is breaking away from us, and if you want to be on this timeline set the intention and declare I align with love, and so it is.